http://notebooklaptoprental.com Everything you need to know about laptop rental. Mon, 06 Sep 2010 20:56:30 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 http://notebooklaptoprental.com/blog/how-do-i-stop-this-relationship-from-ending-horribly/#comment-4127 Carol Mon, 06 Sep 2010 20:56:30 +0000 #comment-4127 If you truly believe that she is depressed then you need to get her help. Depression is not something that she can control herself, and she could be a danger to herself, you, or your daughter. You should seek counselling anyway to see if you can work through your issues. If you can't, then you will have to leave her, and hope that you are able to get custody of your daughter. Although she doesn't have a job or education, I have to warn you that the legal system is rarely kind to dads in custody disputes. If she did have a mental problem, that could help your case. If you truly believe that she is depressed then you need to get her help. Depression is not something that she can control herself, and she could be a danger to herself, you, or your daughter. You should seek counselling anyway to see if you can work through your issues. If you can’t, then you will have to leave her, and hope that you are able to get custody of your daughter. Although she doesn’t have a job or education, I have to warn you that the legal system is rarely kind to dads in custody disputes. If she did have a mental problem, that could help your case.

]]> http://notebooklaptoprental.com/blog/how-do-i-stop-this-relationship-from-ending-horribly/#comment-4126 bibus75 Mon, 06 Sep 2010 20:43:20 +0000 #comment-4126 Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive. No one wants a jealous mate and no one likes being jealous. So what causes jealousy? Jealousy comes about because of the insecurity of the jealous person and the jealousy may or may not have foundation. This person is afraid of hidden communication lines and will do anything to try to uncover them. Jealousy typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. Jealousy often contains a mixture of emotions such as anger, sadness, and disgust. Most likely you need marital consulting to address her low selfsame. Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive.
No one wants a jealous mate and no one likes being jealous. So what causes jealousy?
Jealousy comes about because of the insecurity of the jealous person and the jealousy may or may not have foundation. This person is afraid of hidden communication lines and will do anything to try to uncover them.
Jealousy typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. Jealousy often contains a mixture of emotions such as anger, sadness, and disgust.
Most likely you need marital consulting to address her low selfsame.

]]> http://notebooklaptoprental.com/blog/how-do-i-stop-this-relationship-from-ending-horribly/#comment-4125 *~~CURIOUS~~* Mon, 06 Sep 2010 19:46:23 +0000 #comment-4125 leave her it seems that all that has happend between the both of you has made her a bit insain, its best for her interest as well to just end it, Thats not a healthy realtionship at all, It could get ugly but in the end you both will find some kind of happiness, Since you have the job and everything i would suggest you file for full custody, leave her it seems that all that has happend between the both of you has made her a bit insain, its best for her interest as well to just end it, Thats not a healthy realtionship at all, It could get ugly but in the end you both will find some kind of happiness, Since you have the job and everything i would suggest you file for full custody,

]]> http://notebooklaptoprental.com/blog/how-do-i-stop-this-relationship-from-ending-horribly/#comment-4124 Mrs.Pooboo Mon, 06 Sep 2010 18:51:16 +0000 #comment-4124 I def. think your girlfriend is way over board...im not going to start a fight for a girl answering your question am i...yes you messed up, and i think over 5 years you have prov en your trust back to her...if she excepted to work on it and move forward that meant forgive maybe not forget but to put it behind you n not dwell on it and keep bringing it up. I understand your staying with your her cause your daughter, but if she is at a young age, its better to do it know than later. And not to mention, hearing your parents fight, and see them not getting along effects her more than you ll know...I say tell her if things dont change your leaving. Yea she will probably say well than your not going to see the child, all you need to do is go to court...if your a good father, and you have money to help support her than you will win half custody of her....and maybe full if you are really wanting to push the matter because she has no job or no way of supporting her....the only thing is, in that case since she doesnt have money shes going to suck you for child support...which in a way would be know diff than you staying there and paying for EVERYTHING and being very unhappy. So i think you just talk to her, say hey if this n this(tell her everything your unhappy with) doesnt change than this is what im going to do, and if you threaten me with the child than ill just go to court. But its better to do it soon...cause the older your daughter gets the harder its going to be, plus you only live once you dont wanna waste any time of your life being miserable when you dont have to be....i hope i helped...best of luck to you and your daughter!!! =]] I def. think your girlfriend is way over board…im not going to start a fight for a girl answering your question am i…yes you messed up, and i think over 5 years you have prov en your trust back to her…if she excepted to work on it and move forward that meant forgive maybe not forget but to put it behind you n not dwell on it and keep bringing it up. I understand your staying with your her cause your daughter, but if she is at a young age, its better to do it know than later. And not to mention, hearing your parents fight, and see them not getting along effects her more than you ll know…I say tell her if things dont change your leaving. Yea she will probably say well than your not going to see the child, all you need to do is go to court…if your a good father, and you have money to help support her than you will win half custody of her….and maybe full if you are really wanting to push the matter because she has no job or no way of supporting her….the only thing is, in that case since she doesnt have money shes going to suck you for child support…which in a way would be know diff than you staying there and paying for EVERYTHING and being very unhappy. So i think you just talk to her, say hey if this n this(tell her everything your unhappy with) doesnt change than this is what im going to do, and if you threaten me with the child than ill just go to court. But its better to do it soon…cause the older your daughter gets the harder its going to be, plus you only live once you dont wanna waste any time of your life being miserable when you dont have to be….i hope i helped…best of luck to you and your daughter!!! =]]

]]> http://notebooklaptoprental.com/blog/how-do-i-stop-this-relationship-from-ending-horribly/#comment-4123 Elle Mon, 06 Sep 2010 18:29:28 +0000 #comment-4123 Well bottom line...You betrayed her and it appears that you have not tried to repair the damage you caused, then brought a baby into the world. No, you shouldn't be striking up relationships with other women and yes, bc you continue to do so, she has become more of a PI than a GF. She isn't guilt-free either; she should have decided, before having a child with you, that she could forgive you, however, did you ever give her reasons too? Since you brought an Innocent child into your messed up relationship, you REALLY need to get some family therapy or you know who's going to suffer (and probably already is) is your daughter. She didn't ask for 2 dysfunctional parents and she can't do anything about the two of you, however, you and your girl can. When you both can stop being so self fish and put your daughter first, everything will happen as it should. Well bottom line…You betrayed her and it appears that you have not tried to repair the damage you caused, then brought a baby into the world. No, you shouldn’t be striking up relationships with other women and yes, bc you continue to do so, she has become more of a PI than a GF.
She isn’t guilt-free either; she should have decided, before having a child with you, that she could forgive you, however, did you ever give her reasons too?
Since you brought an Innocent child into your messed up relationship, you REALLY need to get some family therapy or you know who’s going to suffer (and probably already is) is your daughter. She didn’t ask for 2 dysfunctional parents and she can’t do anything about the two of you, however, you and your girl can.
When you both can stop being so self fish and put your daughter first, everything will happen as it should.

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